♥ Wednesday, February 16, 2011

March 21 - April 19

The first sign of the zodiac is concerned with:

* self-assertion, initiation, new beginnings

* action, daring, challenge, adventure

* exploration, pioneering, discovering

* aggression, creativity, personal goals

* personal control of everything

* competition, winning, being first

* courage, honesty, nobility, openness

Elemental Quality

Aries is the cardinal fire sign of the zodiac. It can be likened to a fire which gives direction, such as in a rocket, a gun, or an engine. Superman and Superwoman, who can propel themselves in any direction, are good metaphors of Aries energy. Fire is a process that causes change and Aries uses energy to bring about changes. Being a cardinal sign, Aries is the most energetic of the fire signs and usually takes the initiative.

Spiritual Goal

To learn the meaning of selfless love.

The Aries Personality

These are the general personality traits found in people who are typical of Aries. An unhappy or frustrated Aries may display some of the not-so-attractive traits.

Positive Negative

* Is a leader * Must be the boss

* Is energetic * Brashness

* Helps others to achieve their dreams * Blind to his or her effect on others

* Accepts challenges * Intolerance

* Believes the best of others * Jealousy

* Takes risks for others * Doesn't listen

* Defends the vulnerable * Selfishness

* An Aries life is an open book * Impulsiveness

* Will give life for the loved one * Poor judge of character

* Continues action even if others give up * Dislikes being told what to do

Secret Aries

Inside anyone who has strong Aries influences is a person who thinks that he or she is more interesting than others and better than those with whom they are in competition.

It is patently obvious to all that Aries is interested in winning, whoever or whatever the challenge.

A fight, a race, a bit of physical or verbal sparring, or an opportunity to do things in new ways are what keep the Aries' fires burning bright. Aries has to be number one in every respect. The secret fear of a typical Aries is that he or she won't be liked or valued, even though a winner. However, failure is never a problem because Aries doesn't know the word... every outcome is seen as a part of the winning process, which is why warnings of impending disasters are usually ignored.

The Aries Female

If a woman behaves in a way that is distinctive of the personality associated with the zodiac sign of Aries, she will have a tendency toward the characteristics listed below, providing there are no influences in her personal birthchart that are stronger than that of her Aries sun sign.

Appearance

The typical Aries woman:

* is slim and strong

* is very active and glows with energy

* has strong, luxurious hair

* wears sophisticated colors and perfume

* dresses in clothes appropriate to the occasion

Behavior and Personality Traits

* looks you in the eye and gives a firm handshake

* is enthusiastic and optimistic

* talks back and often gets hurt because of it

* expects loyalty

* is fearless

* has interests outside the home or has a career

* expects to win in any situation

* is direct, open, and honest

* can make miracles happen

Aries At Work

At work, the person who has a typical Aries personality will exhibit the following characteristics.

Typical Behavior and Abilities

A typical Aries at work:

* is loyal an enthusiastic about the company

* will work all hours and is not a clock watcher

* will look elsewhere for an opening if bored

* is highly creative and can initiate

* has very strong willpower

* is not suited to political work

Aries as Employer

A typical Aries boss (male or female):

* is idealistic and needs the faith of his or her employees and expects their loyalty

* believes he/she can make the future a success

* needs others but will go it alone when necessary

* wants to be recognized as the boss

* can pull a business up from a near bankruptcy

* is generous with rewards for hard work

* expects everyone to drop everything to solve a crisis

Aries as Employee

A typical Aries employee (male or female):

* works best when answerable only to the boss

* can promote anything

* tends to work late rather than early

* looks for opportunity to learn and progress

* intends to succeed but is careless with details

* knows he or she can do well

* will move to another job if he or she feels the challenges in the current job have run out; security is not a priority, although Aries workers usually make their way under the most difficult circumstances

Working Environment

The workplace of a typical Aries man or woman:

* will have people and machines to take care of the details

* may be almost anywhere that is exciting

* must be stimulating and allow freedom of movement

* will support an important-seeming image

* must be accessible at all times: day, night, and weekends

Typical Occupations

Aries is associated with work which inspires activity in others -- for example, leaders, directors, supervisors, or any job that has authority. Aries must be in command or they will lose interest. Aries works best at the initiation of a project, leaving the consolidation to other people. Typical jobs are in recruitment and training, work in the theater, business enterprises, sports, and the military in any position that has power.

Aries and Love

To Aries, love is a conquest. Male Aries love the chase and seem to have little difficulty attracting women, while female Aries also love the challenge of the hunt but go about it a little more subtly. Aries of both sexes are attractive because of their natural energy. Aries in love will have many of the characteristics listed below.

Behavior When In Love

The typical Aries:

* is very romantic and believes in courtly love

* will insist on doing the chasing and cannot bear to be chased by anyone

* can be extremely possessive of the lover but cannot understand if the lover is possessive

* places the loved one on a pedestal

* will be jealous of any attention the loved one gives to others

* will defend the loved one to the death

Expectations

The typical Aries expects:

* total faithfulness from the partner

* the lover to respond as if he or she is the first and best lover ever known

* to be loved exclusively

* never to be criticized

The End of An Affair

Boredom is the death of most Aries love affairs. Like the knight in a crusade, it is the winning that is the peak of excitement. Once the fair lady (or fair gentleman) is won, there may be nothing left to stimulate the affair further. At this point the Aries will get itchy feet and want to be off to find new conquests.

It isn't that love itself is merely a conquest, it is the joy of overcoming obstacles to reach love. The partner of an Aries must always keep a little mystery in reserve and must always believe in every new Aries dream. If all fails -- and Aries will try and try before leaving a relationship -- then the Aries passion cools and there remains only a lack of interest.

A lover who hurts Aries very deeply can expect to be totally frozen out and ignored.

Aries Likes and Dislikes

Likes

* being liked

* the best wines

* a unique license plate on the car

* money to burn

* new clothes

* red roses

* food in bright colors

* personalized gifts

* presents wrapped in intriguing paper

* books

* sparkling gems

Dislikes

* being ignored

* physical restriction

* being placed less than first

* feeling hungry

* anyone who performs better than they

* old things, second-hand stuff

* having to wait for anything

* lingering after food

* bland food

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